Do you always get what you want???

If you are reading this with thoughts of finding some really serious discussion, Sorry Buddy close the post, it is not for you because I am here just talking about my sleep. I think the title should have been "Do you always get when you want it" but that would have sounded that I am talking about something else, yeah you got me buddy ;)
So coming back to question do you always get what you want, when you want to sleep you start feeling your eyes all heavy; when you wanna wake up your eyes simply pops open and you get up all bright and shine. I mean this happens with each one of us, isnt it? when you got office/college or where ever you have to get your ass to in the morning but still you dont want to sleep, or rather you want to, but simply not able to :(
Now this is a serious situation, I know not like a life-death one but yeah pretty serious, atleast for me. This is the kind of problem for which you cant wake anybody, no man dont even think about waking up your wife or spouse because first of all she wont get up, second even if she does she will curse you a lot and you yourself will try to put her back to sleep; and if you two are totally into each other and she gets up to spend time with you and god forbids you fall asleep and she dont then you are a dead man :P
So what should I do?? If anyone out there got some good suggestion for me, except for reading (I simply hate to use books for reading, they are written for some greater purpose not to be your pillow), please share it me so that I can use them next Sunday night because this happens to me every Sunday night :P 

Who runs the office?????

This question often pops up in my mind when ever I see a successful company, a great political leader or his campaign. Is it the CEO or the charismatic PM or President or some other great leader who represents his country/ company ,whatever it may be, or are there some other great minds behind the scene??
I personally believe that it cant be a job or work of one person, there has to be some cohesive effort, but doesn't that make it unethical, injustice to all those people who according to me put in the great efforts  and the glory simply goes to the captain. My theory itself cant be held true because then all the ideas, hard work everything was done by his team and the captain just turned out to be a lucky fellow who "just"  found these people.
In this hyper-competitive world nobody will just stick around just a lucky man, it needs much more than that to get the people work to their potential and it is this ability of a leader that makes the team deliver.No matter who works actually in the office but it is the leader who gave vision to the organization, who defines how the work will be done and then he just sits back and monitor, letting other people to come up with their best. He can help them in their chores but he cant nanny them, because no great mind likes authority and this thing leader knows very well. I don't believe in the saying that "You either can be a leader or a follower " because in today's world its very hard to find people who will just follow and personally wont even like to be a "shepherd". So a leader gives sense to his team that they themselves are their bosses and nobody is leading them just guiding or mentoring them from time to time.
So who ever is running the office it doesn't matter at all  because its the leader who is responsible to get this office running .If anything happens he will take a fall, so for the success, the glory should also come to him.

Same as my mood.....

Being forced to make tea by my roommate , I prepared tea absent mindedly poured in 2 cups again absent mindedly . While handing him the cup I uttered "The tea will taste same as my mood", he asked "And what will that be ??"; I: "Not so good....."

Dont you think this is what happens to us always in our lives. Your deliverance depends on your mood, no matter how good you are at that thing.Now its okay upto smaller chores like making tea but what about things which are vital for you. Suppose you are a professional tennis player, on day of an important match you wake with a really bad temperament, reason can be numerous ,something like a bad dream, or the coffee was really bad or your lucky chauffeur calls sick or it could be anything on which you dont have a control at all, then???? Will it affect your performance that day?? Will you let that match slip away??

Now , definitely, you cant do anything about such small incidents which can take your mood offtrack but as they say "No matter what, outcome always lies in your hand....". So next time your brain tells you "Naah I am not in mood today" tell it back "You better be because I wont let it slip away...."

Would you run away when life will give you a chance????????

Yesterday I saw add of Matrix- a beloved movie of our childhood or to be specific our teens- and I lost into memory of how after watching first part I started thinking is this reality, are all the things we see, we feel are ; how should I say it - destined , no not destined but programmed. This memory brings me to more vital question, if something same happens to you as it happened with Neo will you accept it or will swallow the pill??

This kind of situation may not present itself in the same scenario but yeah can give you an opportunity to leave everything behind and start it in a totally new way. Supposedly you have been kidnapped and been taken to totally unknown place and you start liking it, will you go back or will you not????
This is the kind of predicament I want you all to put yourself and think what you will do...